More on adoption

Someone, M. phoned me about adoption, yesterday, because of what I've written.  It was very kind of her and I thank her.  Thanks for reading my blog, too.   We are getting to know each other better and I appreciate that very much.  I also very much enjoy her son, who is my I-pod guru.

Among the things she wanted to say, and I am assuming she will be ok with me saying this here, is that I should not feel second best or think that adoption is second best.  And I just want to say, that's not what I meant.  I feel that some people act and talk as if adoption were second best and one comes across this not infrequently.